DEALING WITH IT

„So, I had this boyfriend who kept saying „I can´t deal with this – I can´t deal with this“ when we were havig an argument. And that really makes it hard to find the solution for a problem or just discuss an issue.“
„He left you?“
„Yeah.“
„And you had to deal with that.“
„Yeah.“
„Sometimes it IS hard to deal with it.“
„Yeah. True.“